Stroke, healing and resilience

Stroke grief mourning the version of yourself that didn’t have to fight this hard

Survivor frustration — knowing your mind and body don’t always match your will.

Healing identity — realizing you’re rebuilding a life, not just recovering one.

Resilience fatigue — being tired of being strong all the time.

It means you’re human.

You didn’t stay in the “why me.”

You didn’t stay in the helplessness.

You didn’t stay in the grief.

You kept moving — even when it was slow, even when it hurt, even when it felt unfair.

We are literally work in progress.

That’s the part of you that’s still fighting for your life, your purpose, your voice.

Losing the old self — the version of you before the stroke, the one who didn’t have to think about mobility, fatigue, or limitations.

Discovering the new self — the person who survived, adapted, and learned to navigate a changed body and mind.

Integrating both selves — not erasing the past, not denying the present, but weaving them together into something whole

September 2026

Right now I do have a presence online but I wanted to do more.

Currently, I am doing some coding to get my Video Chat from scratch—meaning I am doing this myself so that there are no parameters on our discussions.

I am also getting my Google Certs in Cybersecurity and also working on putting together a proposal for partnerships.

It’s very time consuming but I am up for the challenge.

And on top of that my son is now in flag football and Tackle Football, one for school and a league.

Please be patient with me😁